Program the weekend collaboratively. Starbucks at the beach. Work on your own stuff. Work together with others.
Every Saturday I will be out here as a routine teaching others and working on my own projects. Feel free to attend. And make sure to bring your computer. Great lunch places nearby.
Code and Coffee, as the name implies, is mostly about coding and drinking coffee. An alternative to after work meetups, Code and Coffee works out well for people with evening commitments who still want to get together with fellow coders and discuss their craft.